Sel, I am going through a distress situation in my marriage and need an urgent advice. My issue is that, I am married to my husband for the past 5 years and we have a child. My challenge is that I could not stay off my ex boyfriend even though we don't have sex anymore.

Sel, due to his influence on me and the love I have for him, I could not decline his request for me to shave my husband's pubic hair for him. My regret now is that, since I shave and gave him my husband's pubic hair, there has been constant quarrels and misunderstanding in my marriage. This is making my marriage shaky. When i asked him about the hair, he told me he did nothing with it . I know I committed a mistake due to love but what should I do to solve the problem.?

Anonymous wife