First impressions matter. But don’t marry anyone based on their first impression. Even the wrong person can leave an excellent first impression. If you want a marriage that lasts, you should look for the lasting impression, not the first, which can be an act! Puncture that act by provoking them, so that you will see the real person behind the impression. Even you, don't you act differently when meeting people for the first time? It is human nature. Unveil the actual person behind the veil. Do it now, before saying I do. Don’t marry an impression. Marry a reality.