Here is some harsh truth for you: If a man brings money to the table and a woman spends money from that table in the name of a relationship without replenishing the table, you do not have a fifty/fifty relationship. You have a parasitic relationship. And much worse, such a woman is a liability. Because as she grows older, her beauty will gradually fade, and the more her beauty gradually fades, the more she will steadily require money from what you bring to the table to try to compensate for her departing beauty. As a man, you do not need that on your table if you want to be stable. Continuing with her will make you unstable. Therefore, disable that relationship and replace it with a usable one!