Never cut off your parents because of your spouse. You can reduce their visits and your visits to them but never cut them off. Your spouse is like your fingernails. If you cut your fingernails, they will grow again. Your parents are like your fingers. If you cut your fingers, they don't grow again. So, be wise. Manicure your nails. Not your hands. I repeat, not your hands. You can replace your spouse. Your spouse can replace you. But father and mother ate irreplaceable!