❌Dating is not all about the Instagram-worthy moments, cute selfies, and those oh-so-adorable couple. ✅Dating is about having the tough conversations. You know, the ones that make you squirm a little in your seat. It’s about asking the real, sometimes uncomfortable, questions like, "What’s your stance on finances?" or "How do you handle conflict?" because when life gets messy, those cute pictures aren’t going to help you. ✅Dating is for checking compatibility. Looks fade, and that lovey-dovey honeymoon phase doesn’t last forever. What’s going to keep you together when you’ve already binged all your favorite shows and life throws some curveballs? Can you actually handle the tough stuff together? ✅Dating is about seeing each other at your worst. It's easy to love someone when everything's going well But what happens when you’re stressed, or they’re having a bad day? Can you handle seeing each other when you’re not at your best? Because dating isn’t just about the highlight reel; it’s about seeing the behind-the-scenes footage too,the stuff that doesn’t always make it onto social media. Know this 👇 Life isn’t always going to be sunshine and rainbows. There will be hard times,whether it's financial struggles, health issues, or just bad days. The question is, can you handle those moments together? That’s where the real test of compatibility comes in. It’s about being there for each other, even when it’s uncomfortable or not so pretty. So, yeah, take those cute pictures, make some memories. But more importantly, ask the hard questions, have the tough conversations, and make sure you’re compatible for the long haul—not just for the ‘gram.