This is one secret a lot of women don't know.
Men have this psychological construct that if a woman tolerates a thing from them, they hardly will change. A man wants a woman who has boundaries and doesn't take shît. When you start bringing down your standards for a man, he feels bored; no motivation to be with you again.
Men want women who can say NO and mean NO. When a man can make you do anything even against your standards, no matter how beautiful you are, you become less appealing to him.
Men love challenging women.
Men love women who are grounded in their beliefs.
Men love women who can walk away when what they want is not served.
This is why it's highly discouraged to settle with a man who has major habitual and behavioural issues that you can't cope with. No matter how much he poses to assure you that he'd change in marriage, if you fall for that. Immediately, the motivation to change drops. Don’t try to change anyone…change how you deal with them.
If a man can't change before marrying you, I fear after marriage, because most men do their best before marriage. So if this is his best before marrying you, imagine his worst?
Men want women who'll make them see that they'll lose them for not being that man they want.
Another reason men don't value women who stick to them no matter what they do.
√ He physically or emotionally abûsed you, you cry and come back..
√ He says he doesn't want you again, you cry and beg him.
√ He offends you, but you're the one apologizing.
√ He doesn't call, but you're making excuses for him that he's busy or that he's not the calling type.
√ He cheats on you, and you accept him back.
√ He ghost and gives you silent treatment but you keep going back.
In your feminine mind, you feel you're showing him love? You cannot do without him? Love cannot be found where it doesn't exist. Sometimes you have to accept the truth, and stop wasting time on the wrong people. You can’t build a relationship with someone who expects you to do all of the work.
No, you're not in love. You're devaluing yourself. When you know your worth you'll stop entertaining men who don't reciprocate your energy. Who you date/marry is an indication of what you think you deserve in LIFE. If you really think you deserve peace of mind, you won't settle for what disturbs your peace of mind. Who you date/marry is an indication of how much value you place on your FUTURE. Choosing that person is simply choosing how you want to shape all your tomorrows. Who you date or marry is an indication of how much value you place on YOURSELF. Watch closely, you're choosing an experience by choosing that person. Your CHOICE of what you call love is a selection of what you're prepared to live with all your life. Don't say I didn't warn you.
The more nonsense you tolerate from a man, the more nonsense he will produce for you.
Sometimes men prefer women who walk away than women that stays.
Men prefer women they can't have because of their high standards to women who bring down theirs to accommodate them.
Even if they get into something with you. Deep down they are not so thrilled. You're just a relationship of convenience to him. They will easily get bored. And they'll finally leave you.
Have a standard; know what you want, know what you deserve, say NO to anything that's not it and don't bring your standard down.
This is one secret a lot of women don't know.
Men have this psychological construct that if a woman tolerates a thing from them, they hardly will change. A man wants a woman who has boundaries and doesn't take shît. When you start bringing down your standards for a man, he feels bored; no motivation to be with you again.
Men want women who can say NO and mean NO. When a man can make you do anything even against your standards, no matter how beautiful you are, you become less appealing to him.
Men love challenging women.
Men love women who are grounded in their beliefs.
Men love women who can walk away when what they want is not served.
This is why it's highly discouraged to settle with a man who has major habitual and behavioural issues that you can't cope with. No matter how much he poses to assure you that he'd change in marriage, if you fall for that. Immediately, the motivation to change drops. Don’t try to change anyone…change how you deal with them.
If a man can't change before marrying you, I fear after marriage, because most men do their best before marriage. So if this is his best before marrying you, imagine his worst?
Men want women who'll make them see that they'll lose them for not being that man they want.
Another reason men don't value women who stick to them no matter what they do.
√ He physically or emotionally abûsed you, you cry and come back..
√ He says he doesn't want you again, you cry and beg him.
√ He offends you, but you're the one apologizing.
√ He doesn't call, but you're making excuses for him that he's busy or that he's not the calling type.
√ He cheats on you, and you accept him back.
√ He ghost and gives you silent treatment but you keep going back.
In your feminine mind, you feel you're showing him love? You cannot do without him? Love cannot be found where it doesn't exist. Sometimes you have to accept the truth, and stop wasting time on the wrong people. You can’t build a relationship with someone who expects you to do all of the work.
No, you're not in love. You're devaluing yourself. When you know your worth you'll stop entertaining men who don't reciprocate your energy. Who you date/marry is an indication of what you think you deserve in LIFE. If you really think you deserve peace of mind, you won't settle for what disturbs your peace of mind. Who you date/marry is an indication of how much value you place on your FUTURE. Choosing that person is simply choosing how you want to shape all your tomorrows. Who you date or marry is an indication of how much value you place on YOURSELF. Watch closely, you're choosing an experience by choosing that person. Your CHOICE of what you call love is a selection of what you're prepared to live with all your life. Don't say I didn't warn you.
The more nonsense you tolerate from a man, the more nonsense he will produce for you.
Sometimes men prefer women who walk away than women that stays.
Men prefer women they can't have because of their high standards to women who bring down theirs to accommodate them.
Even if they get into something with you. Deep down they are not so thrilled. You're just a relationship of convenience to him. They will easily get bored. And they'll finally leave you.
Have a standard; know what you want, know what you deserve, say NO to anything that's not it and don't bring your standard down.
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