NOW, I KNOW WHY MOSES BLISS AND DEACON FAMOUS MARRIED GHANIAN LADIES. These people are very respectful, abeg! The few guys and ladies I have interacted with online are the most respectful, cordial, and highly cultured among others. Next are Kenyans, Ugandans and the Cameroonians! Yes, Nigerians are very respectful and wonderful if the economy is not biting hard, if not, you are in soup if you delay your online transaction with them. Look at this dialogue with a GHANIAN for instance. CUSTOMER: Hello. ME: Hello. How may I help you? CUSTOMER: I need your book: SEX SWEET SEX please... ME: It costs 52 cedis, you will get it in your email after payment. CUSTOMER. Thank you please, how do I pay? I sent mode of payment. He paid. Ebook is sent but network is delaying delivery. After sometime.. CUSTOMER: I have not received the book please... ME: It could be poor network on your part, kindly retry when your network is high. CUSTOMER: Thank you please. NIGERIAN VERSION CUSTOMER: Hi ME: Hello...how may I help you? CUSTOMER: How much for your book, SEX SWEET SEX ME: Just #5000. CUSTOMER: I don't have money, send it to me. ME: it's for sale. You will get it in your email after payment. CUSTOMER; Ok. She paid, her network is poor, didn't receive her book on time. Frantic calls! CUSTOMER: Where is my book? How am I sure you are not a sc@mm£r? If you don't send my book... ME: Hello... CUSTOMER: I give you one hour, if I don't get my book, I will report you on social media platforms. ME: Hello...calm down. I have sent your book. Your network could be poor hence a delay in receiving it in your mail. If you can't wait, I will refund your #5000 immediately though you will still receive the book. Let me have your account details... CUSTOMER: No worry madam, I will wait... If you are not in my country, you won't understand how the economy is biting hard at people making innocent ladies scream at innocent business people because they fear their hard earned money has been swallowed! Relax my ladies, don't let money define who you are or dictate how you behave. Learn to keep your cool no matter what. Your husband may be in one corner watching. He very careful with online transactions too. Never do business with someone you don't trust and if you trust them enough to patronise them, be patient enough before going berserk...relax.... Your husband may be attracted to your calm demeanor and mature response and from there, wedding bells may ring! You shall not miss your soul mate in Jesus name! © Seun Oladele, 2025. NOTE: It takes few minutes to receive books in your mail if network is high on both end. No matter what, you will definitely get your books within 24 hours when you purchase from us or simply purchase directly from our online book store. I love all Nigerian men and women. I am proudly a Nigerian. God bless you.

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The first Time Hubby invited me to his family house 🏡 to come see his mum and siblings… I said na like this the thing Dey be 😂… I kept postponing the invitation telling him am not ready to see them 😂😂 then I asked him .. can’t we just marry like that without seeing your people 😂😂 they will come for the wedding 💒 naa … Uche ndi Private life Madonna University 😂 My thought 💭 then was very plenty .. what if they don’t like me now .. like this you no go marry me again ??? 🤔 What if there is another person they wanted for him and am here coming to show myself … 😌 What if immediately I come .. they all enter one room and start doing Muchu Muchu 😂😂😂 Which cloth will I wear … ( I had lots of cloth in my wardrobe ooo .. but at the Mention of coming to see the family .. all my clothes vanished 😂😂 I had so many what if in my heart ❤️ and was so skeptical about their validation .. but guess what all this thought 💭 vanished with this few point I noted down here 👇👇 1) Just be your self : Don’t be too Nervous 😟 as whether they will like you or not cos most times the devil capitalizes on our thought 💭 and emotions. And you see yourself been overwhelmed with Negative thoughts.. A lady told me that a day to the day she was to go see her hubby’s family .. so many negative thoughts about them not accepting her … she said her mistakes was not praying over it .. and when she got there .. exactly the way she thought about it .. it happened.. though she is not married into the family .. but only God knows the best 🙌 Maybe for her Good .. 👍 2) Don’t over dress 👗.. cos you might end up meeting lesser expectations of what you opted for .. if you love ❤️ casual.. just make it clean and neat, if you love native, English wear etc .. just make it simple and nice 👍 wear a nice perfume.. not choking Hazards that will saturate the room .. 3) Don’t Go to show yourself so much on the first day : you want to sweep the house that day, you want to cook 🧑‍🍳 that day, you want to mop that day, you want to do certainly everything that day .. sis calm down is just the first day .. help with the little you can .. they might stand up to assist you or tell you not to worry .. Mine was after eating 🥣 cos they prepared delicious meal for me .. my mother in-law can cook 🧑‍🍳.. she na chef 🧑‍🍳 all the way .. ✌️ That day after eating I stood up to carry the plate to the kitchen.. hubby allowed me to take the tray to the kitchen .. maybe to allow me proof a good wife to be for his mum .. but 2 mins later I Didt come out .. he came to the kitchen and saw me bringing out the plate to wash … the next thing he just clapped 3 times then called me Ezigbo Mmadu ( you can demonstrate this I just said like kpa kpa kpa .. Ezigbo mmadu ) keep that plate let’s go inside .. I said No naa Allow me let me wash it .. in my mind I no wan wash am ooo 🙈🙈😂😂😂😂 but as a good girl naa I can’t just keep the plate like that … I just washed my hands 🙌 fast fast.. before he will now change his mind and tell me to wash it .. to test if am wife material 😂😂😂😂.. we came back to the parlor ..and continued our discussion.. 4) Dominating the conversation: Be a good listener and give others a chance to share their thoughts and stories. I love you love talking .. but at this point can you just hear 👂 what they have to say … May be you will hear their mind from there 😂😂😂 5) Be Sensitive: whatever you dont like is more reasons when you come back you say No .. A lady told me that on her first visit to her husband to be family house .. the first mud house 🏡 she met at the gate was shrine with Bl00d spills .. just the sight of that alone told her .. she can’t Marry this man .. and that’s how the relationship ended ✌️she said she can’t start fighting battles her family abolished long ago .. she left .. Being late: Be punctual and arrive on time for your visit. If you say you are coming by 12 .. latest 12:30 you don’t keep people waiting and you expect them to start smiling with you when you arrive by 2 or by 4 .. you ve certainly kpaid the vibes… Advice to the Man 👇👇👇👇 Then As a man, you are the one from the family. You have a Role to play .. you don’t just invite your wife to be to your family house 🏡.. then you allow her to face your family in fears … Protect her from unnecessary questioning and jokes .. Your wife should not come in and become another younger sister. Let her be your wife, the extension of another family. There are things your wife to be should not be subjected to before marriage. When she becomes your wife, she will naturally gravitate toward it. The lord bless your Marriage 🙌 Your marriage will succeed 🙏 Osuchukwu Jane Ezeakolam I’m A Priest Wife With A Difference 📸 Hubby and I.