It is easy to blame men but let's be sincere with ourselves - many ladies are enablers.
We see fire, blow it with a fan, enter into it, and then complain that it's too hot.
We enable men to waste our time, disrespect, and use us.
But here is the thing, after enabling men to do us anyhow, we play v!ctim and either blame our emotions or men.
The only person that can't be blamed is us.
A lady will leave her house and start living with a man who is not her husband.
House chores that they beg her to do at home, she’ll go to a man’s house and become a glorified house girl.
When he now starts disrespecting her, she’ll come online to say that men are w!cked and users.
How can a lady date a man for years and when I ask her about marriage she tells me that she doesn't know.
You don't know as how?
Many ladies stay in relationships for years without ever discussing marriage with the man they are with.
They are waiting for him to talk.
If he wakes up one morning after 5 years and says that he doesn't want to marry her, she will now say that he wasted her time.
If the time was important to you, why were you not intentional about the relationship?
Why were you in a “let's see how it goes” relationship?
After a year together, why didn't you reassess the relationship to be sure that you're both on the same page as regards marriage?
Many of us are not intentional.
Even if some guys want to date us for 10 years, we are very available.
Our availability has enabled many men’s lack of commitment.
You'll say that you're doing talking stage and be spending 3 years in it🤦🏽
How will he remember to define the relationship when you're available like his wife?
Any time of the day he wants to talk, you're available.
A man claims to love a lady but isn't prioritizing communicating with her.
Instead of the lady too to form busy, she’ll start begging for his attention like someone who is not loved at home
Some of us will remain in one-sided relationships and continue in them until we are almost brok£n beyond repair.
Some of us don't even have boundaries.
We don't know that men learn from us how to treat us.
Men know ladies they treat with high regard and the ones that are commoners.
Let's be serious with our lives this year and stop this v!ctim mentality.
Stop enabling bad behaviour and lack of commitment in men.
We are all adults now.🙏🏽
It is easy to blame men but let's be sincere with ourselves - many ladies are enablers.
We see fire, blow it with a fan, enter into it, and then complain that it's too hot.
We enable men to waste our time, disrespect, and use us.
But here is the thing, after enabling men to do us anyhow, we play v!ctim and either blame our emotions or men.
The only person that can't be blamed is us.
A lady will leave her house and start living with a man who is not her husband.
House chores that they beg her to do at home, she’ll go to a man’s house and become a glorified house girl.
When he now starts disrespecting her, she’ll come online to say that men are w!cked and users.
How can a lady date a man for years and when I ask her about marriage she tells me that she doesn't know.
You don't know as how?
Many ladies stay in relationships for years without ever discussing marriage with the man they are with.
They are waiting for him to talk.
If he wakes up one morning after 5 years and says that he doesn't want to marry her, she will now say that he wasted her time.
If the time was important to you, why were you not intentional about the relationship?
Why were you in a “let's see how it goes” relationship?
After a year together, why didn't you reassess the relationship to be sure that you're both on the same page as regards marriage?
Many of us are not intentional.
Even if some guys want to date us for 10 years, we are very available.
Our availability has enabled many men’s lack of commitment.
You'll say that you're doing talking stage and be spending 3 years in it🤦🏽
How will he remember to define the relationship when you're available like his wife?
Any time of the day he wants to talk, you're available.
A man claims to love a lady but isn't prioritizing communicating with her.
Instead of the lady too to form busy, she’ll start begging for his attention like someone who is not loved at home😭
Some of us will remain in one-sided relationships and continue in them until we are almost brok£n beyond repair.
Some of us don't even have boundaries.
We don't know that men learn from us how to treat us.
Men know ladies they treat with high regard and the ones that are commoners.
Let's be serious with our lives this year and stop this v!ctim mentality.
Stop enabling bad behaviour and lack of commitment in men.
We are all adults now.🙏🏽
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