PERFECT YET WRONG FOR YOU
I know he looks so good, he is caring, he is kind, he understands you, everything about him looks perfect for you but is he the right one for you?
I know she is modest, hard working, loyal, beautiful and in all ways absolutely charming and perfect but is she the right one for you?
It is very possible to meet someone that ticks all your boxes now and yet is a wrong match for you.
Many young people fail to know that, we don’t marry for now, we marry for the future.
The guy that is look so perfect now, can he handle the things that you will experience in the next 20years when you both get married?
Certain things you need to do in the future, does he have the audacity to stand by you, would he still understand you and stand by you when you begin to go through certain personal phases of your life as a lady?
That lady that is look like the best for you now, have you seen how she will be in the next 30 years? Can she handle the things you will face then?
You are more interested in marry for beauty and shape which is good, but can she handle the responsibilities God will entrust you in 25years from now? Does she have the tenacity to follow you through certain tough decisions you would have to make in the future?
I bet you, after 20 years of marriage, beauty, shape, eloquence, physical ambience, height, cute eyes, sweet lines etc will not matter so much to you anymore
What will matter to you, is that you are living peaceful life, watching your children grow, and fulfilling your purpose.
I have never heard any couple who have been married for 30 years and above, saying that the reason why they have lived together for these long is because their partner is the most beautiful, most charming, most perfect, etc
Whenever couples are celebrating their 30,40,50,60 years anniversary, what they often say as their reasons for staying together for that long is; trust, commitment, patience, faith in each other, etc
This is why you need to involve God that knows your future more than you can ever possibly do to help guide you in choosing the right spouse.
They may look perfect now but will they fit into all that God wants to do in your life and take you through in the future to come?
Think.
Philip Nwego
PERFECT YET WRONG FOR YOU
I know he looks so good, he is caring, he is kind, he understands you, everything about him looks perfect for you but is he the right one for you?
I know she is modest, hard working, loyal, beautiful and in all ways absolutely charming and perfect but is she the right one for you?
It is very possible to meet someone that ticks all your boxes now and yet is a wrong match for you.
Many young people fail to know that, we don’t marry for now, we marry for the future.
The guy that is look so perfect now, can he handle the things that you will experience in the next 20years when you both get married?
Certain things you need to do in the future, does he have the audacity to stand by you, would he still understand you and stand by you when you begin to go through certain personal phases of your life as a lady?
That lady that is look like the best for you now, have you seen how she will be in the next 30 years? Can she handle the things you will face then?
You are more interested in marry for beauty and shape which is good, but can she handle the responsibilities God will entrust you in 25years from now? Does she have the tenacity to follow you through certain tough decisions you would have to make in the future?
I bet you, after 20 years of marriage, beauty, shape, eloquence, physical ambience, height, cute eyes, sweet lines etc will not matter so much to you anymore
What will matter to you, is that you are living peaceful life, watching your children grow, and fulfilling your purpose.
I have never heard any couple who have been married for 30 years and above, saying that the reason why they have lived together for these long is because their partner is the most beautiful, most charming, most perfect, etc
Whenever couples are celebrating their 30,40,50,60 years anniversary, what they often say as their reasons for staying together for that long is; trust, commitment, patience, faith in each other, etc
This is why you need to involve God that knows your future more than you can ever possibly do to help guide you in choosing the right spouse.
They may look perfect now but will they fit into all that God wants to do in your life and take you through in the future to come?
Think.
Philip Nwego
