3 days to Christmas, hope you guys are preparing for it

Once upon a time, I had a conversation with a married woman who is a mother of 4 about virginity.

She was telling me virginity shouldn't be one of the value to judge a woman. She was making a lot of sense with her points that I started taking notes.

When she was done, I asked her "Madam, if you go to where cars are sold, which one will she pick between the old and the new one?"

She said "New one"

Me:

Life is a masterpiece waiting to be painted. Every moment is a brushstroke of opportunity, every decision a color choice that shapes our destiny. We are the artists, crafting our own unique story. Let's seize the brushes, unleash our creativity, and turn our lives into breathtaking works of art.

You don't have to be great to start, but you have to start to be great

Burna Boy is no longer looking at the direction of 9ja obirins after the humiliation and blackmail that he suffered from his ex girlfriend at the beginning of his career.

Let's face it, 90% of obirins in 9ja are not suitable for a healthy relationship because most of them were raised with survival mindset. An average 9ja obirin equates money for love because the concept of reciprocity seems odd to her.

My friends who had traveled out of Nigeria can attest to this fact. Their partner are not disturbing them to cater for their marital needs despite their loyalty.

An average 9ja obirin feels that a man must prove his love with money while she proves hers with opueh. I am avoiding them like Ebola these days.

The best way to get started is to quit talking and begin started

A gift is more than a wrapped box or a thoughtful gesture. It's a symbol of love, a token of appreciation, and a reflection of the heart. When we give, we share a part of ourselves, showing others they matter, they're seen, and they're loved. The true gift lies not in the price tag, but in the thought, the love, and the kindness behind it.