Where's the wisdom in reporting a cheating husband to his wife?
Women always say they'd want to know if their partners were cheating on them, but they hardly forgive the person who tells them.
They will blame you for destroying their marriage/relationship.
In my own opinion (I could be wrong), you're not doing any woman a favour by telling her that her partner is cheating on her.
Let her find out by herself.
The truth is, many of them know their partners are cheating on them, and sometimes, you're actually complicating the issue by reporting their husband to them, or even telling them you know the woman he's cheating with.
It's not as if they are going to leave the marriage, when they eventually get the proof that their husbands was cheating on them.
You'd be shocked to know that many women, especially Africans, do not consider divorce just because their husband cheated.
Especially if the man is wealthy, and takes care of all her needs.
Most women will even forgive their husband, but they will never forgive you, for trying to 'scatter' their marriage.
My point?
Be careful how you meddle in other people's affairs.
If a marriage will fail, it shouldn't be because of the rumour you peddled.
Stay off people's marriages.
Sometimes, minding your business is a good business.
Men, this post does not in any way justify cheating on your partner's. That's a discussion for another day.
I need your opinion on this issue of reporting a husband to his wife, on the grounds of cheating.
Do you think it's a wise thing to do?
Freeman Chikadibia Echeta
Your Favourite Pastor, Counsellor, Mentor And Conference Speaker.
Where's the wisdom in reporting a cheating husband to his wife?
Women always say they'd want to know if their partners were cheating on them, but they hardly forgive the person who tells them.
They will blame you for destroying their marriage/relationship.
In my own opinion (I could be wrong), you're not doing any woman a favour by telling her that her partner is cheating on her.
Let her find out by herself.
The truth is, many of them know their partners are cheating on them, and sometimes, you're actually complicating the issue by reporting their husband to them, or even telling them you know the woman he's cheating with.
It's not as if they are going to leave the marriage, when they eventually get the proof that their husbands was cheating on them.
You'd be shocked to know that many women, especially Africans, do not consider divorce just because their husband cheated.
Especially if the man is wealthy, and takes care of all her needs.
Most women will even forgive their husband, but they will never forgive you, for trying to 'scatter' their marriage.
My point?
Be careful how you meddle in other people's affairs.
If a marriage will fail, it shouldn't be because of the rumour you peddled.
Stay off people's marriages.
Sometimes, minding your business is a good business.
Men, this post does not in any way justify cheating on your partner's. That's a discussion for another day.
I need your opinion on this issue of reporting a husband to his wife, on the grounds of cheating.
Do you think it's a wise thing to do?
Freeman Chikadibia Echeta
Your Favourite Pastor, Counsellor, Mentor And Conference Speaker.
