It is hard to describe how I felt in this moment.  I decided to go upstairs.  I had no desire to confront them, I just wanted to see what was going on.  I moved slowly and quietly and went up the stairs.  The door was halfway open. The kitchen was empty but I could tell they were in the living room.  It was obvious what was going on at this point by the sounds.

There was no way for me to look in the living room without them seeing me. I pulled out my phone and opened my camera app. I put my phone just around the corner of a wall.

Our generation is fucked up when it comes to trust, loyalty and relationships

We never know the value of moment until it becomes a memory.

Agree?

I left the house the same way I entered. I went back to my car and cried like the pathetic man I am. I decided to watch the video to make sure it recorded. I watched it all. 

I sat in my car for at least half an hour. I couldn't drive to my parents and get the kids as I would have to explain why. I decided that I would pull in the driveway, open the garage, and just pretend like I was there to surprise her. I took my time getting into the house. I made a lot of noise.  When I saw her she was very flustered asking me why I was home, etc.  She was in a robe and said she was just getting ready for a bath.

I told her about my plans and she seemed excited.  She poured us both a glass of wine and said we should pregame before getting ready.  I don’t think I talked much really.  She took me into the living room.  I’m not proud of what I let happen.  I could faintly see the guy sneaking downstairs and going to the basement stairs but I didn’t say or do anything, I just let my wife continue doing what she was doing to me.

Since that day, I have watched the video of her repeatedly.  I can’t bring myself to make any decisions on what I should do next.  She seems to know something is wrong with me because she’s asked a few times if I’m ok.  

I feel worthless and every time I hit a low point I watch that video again.  I feel like I've watched it at least 10 times a day since I caught them.

What should I do

Disclaimer: not my story

People were asked “What’s the weirdest thing that has happened to you at a sleep over?”

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