It’s okay to miss them without wanting them back in your life. It’s okay to remember and long for those good memories you made with them. It’s okay to feel sad when you re-realise that there’s a reason they’re no longer in your life. it’s okay. Just because you miss them or miss moments you had with them, it doesn’t necessarily mean that you want or need them back in your life. You are simply reminiscing on the past and that’s normal.

“There are those days when everything seems to just fall apart completely, but remember it's going to last just for a while and then it will be over.”

Sometimes struggles are exactly what we need in our life. If we were to go through our life without any obstacles, we would be crippled. We would not be as strong as what we could have been. Give every opportunity a chance, leave no room for regrets

Different levels of your journey in life will require a different version of you; that's why life will put you through challenges in other to change you. Every time you'll unlock a new level and become a new person, your circle will also have to change. That's why some relationships will have to end.

The person you used to be no longer exists because you have been TRANSFORMED and now is the time, to get to know the NEW you!

Things that you need to Stop

1. Hanging out with people who don’t appreciate you.

2. Running from your problems and hiding from the truth

3. Acting as a door mat and putting yourself last.

4. Longing for the past and the way things used to be.

5. Beating yourself up for the stupid things you did

6. Rejecting new relationships because you have been hurt.

7. Holding onto grudges that only drag you down.

8. Trying to be perfect – as that’s just a waste of time.