What’s the best line to end an argument?

Many people have married from Lagos, & are still in successful relationships; Stop stereotyping. Ur personal experience shouldn't be used to generalise any state, ethnicity, or gender. The same state u are speaking against, has contributed to many's success stories

You’re only afraid of spending money cause you don’t think you’ll make more of it

my hardwork isn’t hard enough

There’s levels to this wealth thing

A mil is nothing

Once you understand our Creator's spiritual, all-seeing nature, you will realise that enemies are more important than friends because friends make you comfortable and lazy. So, God allows enemies to stir you up and stimulate you. Imagine how far and lazy antelopes would be in the jungle without lions to disturb their lives. That your so-called enemy must be your best friend in disguise. If not for him, you would not be so conscious of not making a mistake. You would never do your best work. But because you know he is waiting for your downfall, you take greater care to ensure you disappoint him. Without Prince chasing him, Michael Jackson would not have been so legendary. But for Ben Johnson at his tail, Carl Lewis would not have run so fast!

Your perspective highlights an intriguing truth: challenges, often embodied by our "enemies," push us to excel. While friends offer comfort, it is the pressure from opposition that can ignite our greatest efforts. Just as antelopes remain agile due to the threat of lions, we, too, rise to our full potential when faced with adversity. Recognizing an enemy as a catalyst rather than a hindrance shifts our focus from fear to growth, reminding us that even the harshest critics can play a vital role in our success.

Enemies often serve a divine purpose, challenging us in ways friends cannot. Biblically, God allows enemies to refine us, as Proverbs 27:17 says, "Iron sharpens iron." In nature, predators like lions keep prey alert and fast, driving their evolution. Morally, enemies push us to rise above, encouraging growth and resilience. For the future, they help us prepare for adversity, ensuring we remain sharp and adaptive. Strategically, an enemy’s scrutiny forces us to work harder and smarter, often leading to our best achievements. Without opposition, greatness is rarely achieved

A job, even a good and well-paid job, is a mirage of prosperity. Because it gives you the illusion of wealth, it is not sustainable without that job. If, for example, you cannot stand or walk without the aid of a walking stick, you are really not able-bodied, although you may appear to be. It is the same with a job. If you cannot meet your needs without that job, then you are, in reality, poor. You can be sacked, the business can fold up, or ill health can prevent you from doing the job. That is why you need to invest by buying stocks, ETFs, REITs and Treasury Bills, and divest by starting your own small business. Everything with a beginning must have an end, and the person who hired you can get you fired. Prepare ahead. Invest now. Especially if you are married. If your work dries up and you have no investment, your life may also dry up.

“So often time it happens, we all live our life in chains, and we never even know we have the key.”

“Sometimes letting go is not about a lack of faith in God, but a lack in faith that you have it in yourself to pull off the greatest plan he has in store for you.”