Success usually comes to those who are too busy to wait for it. Says who?

After I got married,I noticed my husband cheats a lot. Sometimes he sleeps out for days without calling, and when I complain he will say if I'm no longer comfortable I should leave his house. I kept enduring till I gave birth. He even beat me with mop sticks yet I was enduring and never said a word to anybody because I was scared of what people will say, he always throw my things at any slight quarrel. I always end up begging till one day he left the house for four days,no call nothing…….

14 SECRETS MOST WOMEN DON'T KNOW ON HOW TO CALM YOUR HUSBAND'S MIND... 1. MAKE LOVE TO HIM Se* has a way of relaxing a man. You will change his mood when you make love to him, especially if you are the one who seduces him and initiates it. 2. DON'T MAKE THE HOME A WARZONE If coming home to you is coming home to yet another argument and fight where you explode and turn everything into an issue, he will dread coming home and it hurts when home is a place to run away from, not to run to. 3. ASK HIM HOW HE IS Most women want the husband to ask them "How was your day?", "How did you sleep?" "How are you?" yet they rarely ask the husband these. If these questions make you feel cared for, your husband also wants to feel cared for. 4. ORGANIZE HIS LIFE A lot of men can be disorganized, especially when they are going through a lot in life or have a lot on their mind. This chaos in their system, dressing, schedule or environment can lead to more unease on their mind. When you help him clear the clutter and attend to some of his needs without him asking, he will think better. 5. DON'T ATTACK HIS MAN CAVE Most have a man cave. This is an activity they do or a place they go to perhaps a room; maybe to play a game, watch TV, meditate and think, write, read, create, work out or just be. Don't attack this, just agree with him on how he can balance his time so that he doesn't spend too many hours in his man cave. 6. PRAY FOR HIM You are the one who knows best his potential, struggles, battles and questions; commit him to prayer. Let him hear you pray for him. 7. HELP HIM OUT FINANCIALLY A lot of men are going through stress due to finances. Help him, by not putting pressure on him to give the family a lifestyle he can't afford at present, by helping to pay some of the bills, by helping him manage finances better, by saving and seeking long term investments, by stepping up especially when he has been fired or going through business losses. 8. AFFIRM HIM A man can get tired, a man can go through burn out, a man can question himself, a man can worry, a man can get discouraged; which is why it is important for you to remind him of his greatness, celebrate his achievements and tell him how proud you are of him. This motivates him. 9. STAY FAITHFUL TO HIM Nothing destabilizes a man like when he suspects or finds out that the wife he loves and has given his all to is entertaining, flirting, sleeping with or longing to be with another man. Spare him this torture. 10. BE EASY TO TALK TO Most men show a tough face and don't open up to anyone because they trust no one. This is how many of them go through depression and suffer in silence. They long to find a confidant who they can reveal themselves and their deepest joys and pain to; be that confidant. 11. SMILE The smile of the woman a man loves keeps him going. Your smile inspires him and makes him want to do more for you to keep it. 12. KISS HIM Kissing him shows affection. Kiss him not just on his lips, kiss his cheeks, his arms, his back as you tell him you love him. 13. MASSAGE HIM Home massages are the best. Invest in some good massage oils and ask him occasionally to lie down and give him a feel good massage. Lie down too so that he can return the favour. 14. MAKE NEW MEMORIES WITH HIM When he is spending time with you - face to face or online, make new memories together; joke with him, tease him, play with him, have stimulating conversations with him, do something new. This will recharge him and make him miss you when you two are apart. To Whom Brain Is Given, Sense Is expected #degeneralcomics

#MYTHS_ABOUT_SEX 1. WHEN THE MAN STRUGGLES TO ERECT, HE IS CHEATING Sometimes a man will struggle to erect or sustain an erection because he is stressed, tired, overthinking or he feels you disrespect him as his wife. Don't be so quick to accuse him of cheating 2. ONCE A CHEAT, ALWAYS A CHEAT Yes, infidelity hurts; some continue with the lifestyle but others transform to stop and be a better spouse. People can change. Marriages can thrive after infidelity if the two choose to fight for it and heal it 3. IF A WOMAN DOESN'T SQUIRT, SHE IS NOT SEXUALLY SATISFIED Not every woman will squirt in their lifetime; some even don't long to squirt because they find it messy. Don't feel under pressure, intimacy is much deeper, not a chase after squirts 4. A WOMAN WHO HAS GIVEN BIRTH IS TOO WIDE DOWN THERE The vagina is very elastic, it can expand and contract. A woman can go back to tightness after giving birth, let us not make motherhood seem like a pleasure killer 5. YOUR HUSBAND HATES YOUR STRETCHMARKS Many women feel insecure about their stretchmarks because of their own insecurities or the judgement from other women. Most men don't even complain about stretchmarks, all they want is some good loving inside the wife. Lady, you are beautiful as you are. Relax 6. SIZE IS EVERYTHING The size of the penis is not everything, skill is. Regardless of the God-given size or shape of your penis; what your wife wants is that you be creative and skillfull with it as you confidently give her that good feeling 7. EVERY SEXUAL EPISODE A COUPLE HAS MUST BE THE SAME Last night's love making might have been so intense, today it might be calm and flat. Not every time it will be similar. Stop trying to recreate a memory, enjoy each episode and make it unique. Don't panic or think your marriage is under threat when the sex this week doesn't match last week's fireworks 8. EVERY PERSON HAS THE SAME SEXUAL SPOTS Don't copy paste what you hear about others. Not every woman has sensitive nipples, not every man loves their balls played with. Some ladies find their inner thighs ticklish, some men love their nipples pinched. Find out how your spouse wants it. Discover 9. EVERY WOMAN CLIMAXES JUST ONCE Some women can only climax once and some can climax over and over. Find out what kind of a woman she is 10. THOSE WHO MARRIED AS VIRGINS OR WITH LITTLE SEXUAL EXPERIENCE ARE BORING IN BED You don't need training with many people to be great in bed; all you need is to emotionally connect and be willing to learn your spouse and to enjoy and give pleasure and your sex life will be amazing 11. SEX IN AFFAIRS IS SWEETER THAN SEX IN MARRIAGE Affairs are fun because they are new, passionate, they have a lot of investment in flirting and emotional bonding, and there is a build up of excitement. All those things you can bring into your marriage. You can have a steamy affair with your spouse 12. A COUPLE THAT HAS HAD AN AVERAGE SEX LIFE CAN NEVER IMPROVE Any couple that feels their sex life sucks can shake things up and bring fire into their love life. Are you willing to go on an adventure on each other's body? 13. EVERY MAN WAKES UP WITH A HARD ON Not every man will wake up horny, so don't think he is not attracted to you just because he doesn't want some each morning. You can start him up though 14. SPIRITUAL PEOPLE ARE PATHETIC IN BED You can be spiritual and still be highly sexual. Sex was created by God. God is a romantic God. In fact, the more you grow as a believer, the more romantic and expressive you should become, understanding the beauty and power of sexual intimacy done as unto the Lord 15. IF YOU LIKE MAKING LOVE AT NIGHT, YOUR SPOUSE WILL AUTOMATICALLY WANT THE SAME Your spouse might enjoy making love a different time than you. Some people are night people, others are morning ones; the goal is to compromise and accommodate each other's preferences in the marriage to tend to each other's needs 16. EVERY INFECTION IS BECAUSE OF INFIDELITY Sometimes your infection as a woman is not brought about by your man giving you an STI, you could be having a UTI, or an infection brought about by your hygiene, toilet use, underwear not properly dried before wearing or internal body fluids. Don't be so quick to jump into conclusions. #Sree ❤️

You know it’s good to have a great wife; but men is super great to have a good friend. There are issues in our lives that no amount love and care a wife gives that can make it go away. Men need to have good friends; men are the MOST loneliest species on earth. Ancestor's wisdom.

Learn to show love to everyone you meet.

Be yourself always. It's important.

Each day is another privilege to be alive. Give thanks to Creator.

Nothing great happens on its own.