I WANT TO ADVISE LADIES WHETHER SINGLE OR MARRIED to be careful how you collect money from men. When a man consistently gives you money especially when he is not related to you in anyway neither is he born again or godly, there is a tendency to be sexually attracted to you and you have a high tendency to get physically moved towards him.
Women are receivers by nature. Women equate generosity from a man with love and whether he knows it or not, he may become romantic and sexually appealing to her.
Everyone should be careful to avoid stories that touch!
Emotional affair is easy to detect if you will be honest with yourself and set strict boundaries where necessary.
I am not saying you shouldn't seek help or collect cash gifts from anyone who wants to bless you. When God favours you, people will chase you with money, men will love to help you, women will be moved to be a blessing to you. The heart of men will be stirred to love you, take care of you and see to your well being.
But when over familiarity is stepping in, calls are becoming too frequent, chats are getting too personal and there is an underlying chemistry building up, have the decency to set boundaries and call it quits!
I am especially referring to ladies who are engaged or married.
Single ladies should avoid being emotionally and physically close to married men.
Those who are single and searching need to separate money from love. If a guy gives you money too much, you !may mistake it for love and jump to accept his proposal. Yes, generosity is part of love. When a man loves you, he will give to you but if you don't have peace and you are both going opposite direction or he is physically, sexually and verbally abusive, you need to re-assess what you are going into.
Ladies should work hard to earn their own money so they won't depend on others for survival.
Married men should take their financial responsibility serious so their wives won't be tempted to seek financial help from men who will take advantage of them.
We all should be disciplined and contented with what we have.
Covetousness can drive you to accept what you shouldn't accept.
May you not fall into Satan's trap!
© Seun Oladele
I WANT TO ADVISE LADIES WHETHER SINGLE OR MARRIED to be careful how you collect money from men. When a man consistently gives you money especially when he is not related to you in anyway neither is he born again or godly, there is a tendency to be sexually attracted to you and you have a high tendency to get physically moved towards him.
Women are receivers by nature. Women equate generosity from a man with love and whether he knows it or not, he may become romantic and sexually appealing to her.
Everyone should be careful to avoid stories that touch!
Emotional affair is easy to detect if you will be honest with yourself and set strict boundaries where necessary.
I am not saying you shouldn't seek help or collect cash gifts from anyone who wants to bless you. When God favours you, people will chase you with money, men will love to help you, women will be moved to be a blessing to you. The heart of men will be stirred to love you, take care of you and see to your well being.
But when over familiarity is stepping in, calls are becoming too frequent, chats are getting too personal and there is an underlying chemistry building up, have the decency to set boundaries and call it quits!
I am especially referring to ladies who are engaged or married.
Single ladies should avoid being emotionally and physically close to married men.
Those who are single and searching need to separate money from love. If a guy gives you money too much, you !may mistake it for love and jump to accept his proposal. Yes, generosity is part of love. When a man loves you, he will give to you but if you don't have peace and you are both going opposite direction or he is physically, sexually and verbally abusive, you need to re-assess what you are going into.
Ladies should work hard to earn their own money so they won't depend on others for survival.
Married men should take their financial responsibility serious so their wives won't be tempted to seek financial help from men who will take advantage of them.
We all should be disciplined and contented with what we have.
Covetousness can drive you to accept what you shouldn't accept.
May you not fall into Satan's trap!
© Seun Oladele
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