A divorced friend remarried 2 months ago, I heard from her younger sister that her ex husband was very vexed about it. That why wasn't he informed before she remarried...he even threw small drama at the family.

Thank God, she was wise enough to leave his son with her mother, despite her new husband's pleas to bring him, she refused. The ex husband would had used the son to create bigger drama.

Her ex husband swore no one will ever marry her again, he destroyed her name and she had some challenges remarrying, once he knew she's dating, he'll find a way to manipulate the suitors mind, she had lost two suitors because of him. But this one came as a surprise to him, because she kept the relationship hidden even from some family and friends.

What pissed him more was when he learnt she married as a first wife, her present husband was never married,he married her like a New bride not bazawara(divorced woman)and all the things her ex husband denied her, she's enjoying it in her present marriage. Her present husband enrolled her in a school and also established a small business for her. That support she didn't have in her first marriage, she's getting it in her second.

I learnt from her story that
*When it's your time, nothing can stop it. What is meant for you will always be for you.
*To keep a low profile with relationships especially when you have enemies around you, waiting to shame you.
*A failed marriage is never the end, being a single mum won't stop you from finding love again.
*No matter the lies and rumors about you, stay true to yourself, God see's your heart, someone befitting of you will see you for who you truly are.
*If that man won't value you, another man will.
* Not all men are same, some may break you, some will build you. There are good men out there too.

Life is unpredictable.

Every sunrise marks a new chance to rewrite your story, chase your dreams, and make today better than yesterday - seize it with hope, resilience, and determination.

Did you know?
Dinah’s story influenced the trajectory of Jacob’s family. (Genesis 34)

A sheep was passing and saw a lion crying inside a cage trapped, the lion begged the sheep to rescue him with a promise not to kill and eat it, but the sheep refused.. After much persuasion and for the sheep's gullibility, it opened the cage for the lion._*
*_Now the lion was very hungry having stayed in the cage for days without food.. It quickly pounced on the sheep and was about to kill and eat it, but the sheep reminded him of his promise._*
*_They were still there arguing when other animals came passing and they sought to know what happened.. Both the lion and the sheep narrated their own side of the story, but because of fear and in trying to gain Favour in the sight of the lion, all the animals took side with the lion except the Tortoise who claimed not to understand the whole scenario._*
*_Now the Tortoise asked the lion to show them where exactly he was before the sheep rescued him, The lion pointed at the cage.. Tortoise asked again, "were you inside or outside when the sheep arrived"??... The lion replied, "I was inside"._*
*_The tortoise again asked, "Okay, enter and let’s see how difficult it could be inside bcoz I'm not getting the whole scenario".. The lion entered, and immediately, the tortoise locked the cage.. The lion was now trapped!!_*
*_In amazement, the other animals asked tortoise "why" and tortoise replied.. "If we allow him to eat the sheep today, He will still go hungry tomorrow and we don't know the next amongst us to be eaten tomorrow.!!_*
*MORAL OF THE TALE*
*_DON'T SUPPORT EVIL TODAY BECAUSE IT DOESN'T AFFECT YOU DIRECTLY, TOMORROW IT COULD BE YOUR TURN.!!_*

I love to read. A lot. Story books of all genres and titles. Helps me polish my writing too...
But let's not get started on study notes. My attention finally starts looking for something exciting...
#writer #reflections

Life is like a story

I am a book lover and I finished reading a novel titled Akwaugo recently. The novel combines the themes of folklore and romance and tells the story of Akwaugo and Tobechukwu whose lives become entwined after a chance encounter. But their love is one whose path is filled with uncertainty and difficulties amidst traditions that threaten to keep them apart. It is a very interesting read with a lot of lessons to learn from. If you haven't read it, I recommend you check it out.

The shortest war in history was between Britain and Zanzibar on August 27, 1896, and lasted only 38 minutes.

Question: What was the significance of the cow burial incident in the story?
Answer: The live burial of a cow was part of a bizarre ritual that left Bepo questioning the actions of the school director and the nature of the school environment.
Question: What was the reaction of the parents to the innovative teaching method introduced by Bepo?
Answer: Parents found the idea of their children teaching them at home to be novel and reassuring, leading to positive feedback about the school

“Engagement marks the end of a whirlwind romance and beginning of an eternal love story.” – Rajeev Ranjan