Dear Singles, please come closer 🙏 Relevant Questions You Should Ask During Courtship that May Be seen As Not Important❗ 👌Ask your proposed partner if they SNORE while sleeping😴. Don't look at me that way, it's not bad to snore but you've to know if they do, so you can prepare yourself to enjoy and endure their snoring nature forever. Romantic snoring☺😁 👌Ask them if they observe Morning devotion, so you don't end up praying alone or them telling you that they do their devotion in their heart or workplace. Two of you praying together should be the spiritual goal❗ 👌Ask them if they can sweep, wash, cook, and iron. It might look like they can do it till you ask them and then you will know that they can't or aren't so good at doing it. Then you will have to be doing it ALONE. That's stressing and unprepared of you, you know❓ 👌Ask them if they prefer sleeping with the light on or off. So if you're the opposite of them, you will start adjusting your body system to that😜 👌 Ask them how they react when they are angry. Are they sensitive to jokes, etc? Woooh!! Make person no tell you "Am I your mate?", 'Do you know who I am "🙄 or break plates on top of your head😒. Mbok o❗ 👌 Ask them and make deep inquiries too to know if they are married or have been married before or probably have a child out of wedlock. So you don't wake up one day to the biggest shock of your life and stories that keep touching the heart. 👌Ask them how many times they eat surplus and stored food. Except you want to be cooking every day because your partner no gree eat one particular food twice abi thrice😜 👌Ask them where they start undressing after work😁 Some partners, start from the sitting room. You will find one leg of his socks in the parlour, their bra or tie in the kitchen and their shirt or trouser on the bedroom floor, ewoo❗ 👌Ask them if they prefer sleeping on an arranged or scattered bed. Yes, ask oo. Some partners can comfortably sleep on a scattered bed with their dirty clothes on top and they just won't mind😏. But won't you mind? Abi you fit follow them sleep liadat?🤪 Na liadat fight dey start too😌. 👌 Ask them of their source of income. The kind of work they do. Is there any Plan B or C in case things don't go as you both planned? Ask ooo. You need money to run the affairs of your home❗ 👌Ask them how many children they would need, if children are not forth coming as soon as they expected, what next ❓ Are they open to adoption ❓Will you guys still stick together, Abi Dem go try second wife😳🙆 👌 Lastly, for now, Ask them how they squeeze their toothpaste, from the button abi from the top? Asks oo. Some marriages have been dissolved because of this matter🤦🏽‍♀️. IF they are not virgins! Ask about their sexual life. I won't go deeper on this one but just ask them how many times you can be having sex. I know some sex periods could be so impromptu. Don't look at me that way, I read🙄, for enlightenment's sake because there's nothing wrong with knowing this. Let them know how far your body can manage and respond to the sex moment. (If you already have an experience before salvation) If both of you are virgins Mbok ask oo🙃.....AND don't neglect to ask them about their purpose and vision in life. A visionless home is hopeless. If we take time to observe, we will know that sometimes LITTLE and unnecessary issues cause big misunderstandings in some homes. No question is more or less important during courtship. Courtship is the BEST time to know a bit of everything about your partner, so you can prepare yourself enough for the outcome. Here's me praying for you and me today, May our marriages truly make us happy. May we not regret the choice of partner we finally get to settle with. May our children emulate our goodly and godly lifestyle. May our homes be beautiful ones. May our homes be filled with Love, Security and Trust.🙏 Above all may God be the third cord of our marriages. May there be peace, both internally and externally and May God grant all of us our positive heart desires💯🙏

*Breaking the Yoke of Hopelessness* Hopelessness is a suffocating feeling that can envelop anyone, regardless of their background or circumstances. It's a heavy burden that can weigh us down, making it difficult to breathe, think, or even move forward. But there is hope, and it's possible to break free from the yoke of hopelessness. *Understanding Hopelessness* Hopelessness is a state of mind characterized by feelings of despair, helplessness, and pessimism. It's often accompanied by a sense of being trapped, with no visible escape route. Hopelessness can stem from various sources, including: 1. Traumatic experiences 2. Chronic illness or pain 3. Financial struggles 4. Relationship problems 5. Mental health issues *The Consequences of Hopelessness* Prolonged hopelessness can have severe consequences on our mental and physical well-being. Some of the effects include: 1. Depression and anxiety 2. Loss of motivation and purpose 3. Strained relationships 4. Weakened immune system 5. Increased risk of suicidal thoughts *Breaking Free from Hopelessness* Breaking the yoke of hopelessness requires a combination of self-awareness, support, and intentional actions. Here are some steps to help you get started: 1. *Acknowledge your feelings*: Recognize and accept your emotions, rather than suppressing or denying them. 2. *Seek support*: Reach out to trusted friends, family, or mental health professionals for guidance and encouragement. 3. *Practice self-care*: Engage in activities that promote relaxation and stress reduction, such as exercise, meditation, or hobbies. 4. *Reframe negative thoughts*: Challenge pessimistic thoughts by focusing on positive aspects and potential solutions. 5. *Take small steps*: Break down seemingly insurmountable tasks into manageable, achievable steps. 6. *Celebrate small wins*: Acknowledge and celebrate each small victory, which can help build momentum and confidence. 7. *Find purpose and meaning*: Engage in activities that give you a sense of purpose and fulfillment, which can help shift your focus away from hopelessness. *A Message of Hope* Breaking the yoke of hopelessness is a journey, not a destination. It requires patience, persistence, and support. Remember that you are not alone, and there is always hope for a better tomorrow. As the ancient Greek philosopher, Aristotle, once said, "We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit." By adopting healthy habits and intentional practices, you can break free from the yoke of hopelessness and cultivate a more hopeful, resilient, and fulfilling life. *Resources* If you or someone you know is struggling with hopelessness, please reach out by clicking hear https://selar.com/p/04m339?affiliate=2lhq

happy valentine’s day to the girl who’s spending this day like a normal day. happy valentine’s day to the girl who’s a hopeless romantic and still hasn’t seen romance. happy valentine’s day to the girl who just stepped into being single. happy valentine’s day to the girl who’s with someone who isn’t going to appreciate her today. happy valentine’s day to the girl who puts out more than she gets. happy valentine’s day to the girl who can’t seem to walk away from that toxic situation. if nobody else told you today, you are valued & loved 🫶🏽💞

Here are some daily motivational quotes and business strategies to help you stay focused and driven: Success and Motivation - *Believe in Yourself*: "You have to believe in yourself when no one else does — that makes you a winner right there" - Venus Williams¹ - *Take Risks*: "If you are not willing to risk the usual, you will have to settle for the ordinary" - Jim Rohn - *Learn from Failure*: "Failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts" - Winston Churchill Business Strategies - *Innovate and Improve*: "Every day that we spent not improving our products was a wasted day" - Joel Spolsky - *Focus on Customer Needs*: "If you're competitor-focused, you have to wait until there is a competitor doing something. Being customer-focused allows you to be more pioneering" - Jeff Bezos - *Persevere and Adapt*: "Success is no accident. It is hard work, perseverance, learning, studying, sacrifice and most of all, love of what you are doing or learning to do" - Pele Productivity and Time Management - *Prioritize and Focus*: "Don't watch the clock; do what it does. Keep going" - Sam Levenson - *Take Action*: "The way to get started is to quit talking and begin doing" - Walt Disney - *Stay Organized*: "Get big quietly, so you don’t tip off potential competitors" - Chris Dixon Remember, motivation and success come from within. Stay focused, work hard, and believe in yourself.

Don’t be hopeless

You found him on Facebook You checked his profile picture He is handsome He DM you You reply, all excited You all want to hook up You set a date You dress up that leggings with no underwear You're smelling good You put on a makeup, fresh breath and new weave He takes you for a launch at a fancy restaurant He takes you out for a drink and ice cream You two have a good time He rubs your hand Makes you laugh Gives you looks and smiles You stupidly fall in love It's like you've known him for some years He took you to his apartment He makes you feel comfortable and lays u on his bed Kiss you passionately U love his aggression, strength, power and you give in It feels good U know it's wrong, but it's feel good U ask for protection, he says it's too late U obey and don't disturb He says he loves you and you don't hesitate to say you love him too He hits it nice and slow After, he goes to the kitchen to get a glass of water He helps you drink it, oooh man U feel special "He must be the one" you think to yourself U get dressed He takes you to the taxi park He kisses you on the cheeks and says "I had a great time," Gives u cash U smile and say "See you tomorrow babe" He stays silent Your taxi drives away In the taxi u can't stop smiling U get home and inbox him dat u got home safe He is online, but doesn't reply It's like unlike him, so u inbox him again He doesn't respond Minutes later you can't find him on your friend list HE BLOCKED U Days, weeks and months passes by U started feeling sick, weak, loose weight n act strange with sores in ur mouth U go to clinic Get tested Minutes later Nurse walks in "I'm sorry. u're HIV positive n pregnant "HOW?" U don't understand Reality hits u U walk home Scared Confused U go to d bus stop U lay, hopeless and emotionless U see death coming nearer U look into the sky and mumble a prayer Dat's d end of u Don't be dat girl! Live well.Stop chasing material things.5 minutes pleasure can ruin ur life🤷🤷

To everyone reading this Keep going. No matter how stuck you feel, no matter how bad things are right now, no matter how hopeless & depressed you feel, no matter how many days you have spent wishing things were different. you won't feel this way forever. Keep going.

It is hopeless to worry about tomorrow. God is in control

Civilization is a hopeless race to discover remedies for the evils it produces

I was lost and hopeless, but now I have a purpose in life all because of you. I love you so dearly that I cannot imagine you leaving.