"Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope." -

THE HIGH COST OF A FEW MINUTES OF PLEASURE

Why Sexual Discipline Is a Must for Every Man

Some men have destroyed their entire future for just a few minutes in bed.
Some have lost their money, health, focus, and even their lives—just because they couldn’t control their urges.

Lust is expensive—but many don’t realize the price until it’s too late.

If you think a little “fun” can’t ruin you, let me remind you:

Samson lost his strength to Delilah.

David risked his kingdom for Bathsheba.

Many great men have been reduced to nothing—all because of a few minutes of pleasure.

Oga, wake up before you become the next victim.

WHAT SEXUAL INDULGENCE WILL COST YOU

1. YOUR MONEY

Sex is not cheap—especially in today’s world.

One "babe" says, “I need urgent 2K.” You send it.

Another one says, “I need my hair done.” You pay.

Another one says, “My rent is due.” You cover it.

Before you know it, your bank account is dry—but guess what? The same women will leave you for the next man with more money.

Ask yourself:

How many successful men waste money on women before building themselves?

How many rich men spend recklessly on pleasure without making sure their empire is secured?

If money is power, why would you drain yourself just to impress someone who will forget you tomorrow?

Solution: Secure your finances before you secure a woman.

2. YOUR HEALTH

Casual sex comes with consequences.

STDs don’t care if you were just “having fun.”

Unwanted pregnancies don’t care if you were “not ready.”

Stress, anxiety, and emotional drama come as part of the package.

Many men have ruined their health chasing after pleasure.
From infections to lifelong regrets, the body always pays the price.

Solution: Control your body before it destroys you.

3. YOUR FOCUS & DISCIPLINE

Every time you chase pleasure, you waste:

Time you could use to build yourself.

Energy you could use to achieve success.

Discipline that makes you strong as a man.

Oga, the men at the top didn’t get there by chasing women all day.
They built themselves first—then women came as a result.

But many of you?

You are busy DMing women instead of learning skills.

You are on dating apps instead of reading books.

You are watching porn instead of working on your goals.

And then you wonder why life is hard.

Solution: Master your discipline, and success will follow.

4. YOUR REPUTATION

Men don’t respect weak men.
And nothing weakens a man more than being controlled by lust.

If you’re chasing every woman in town, people talk.

If you’re sleeping around recklessly, people notice.

If you’re addicted to sex and pleasure, people lose respect for you.

You may think nobody knows—but the streets are always watching.

And when real opportunities come, your bad reputation will close doors in your face.

Solution: Build a name that commands respect, not mockery.

5. YOUR DESTINY

History is full of men who had great potential but lost everything to women, sex, and pleasure.

Politicians destroyed by scandals.

Businessmen ruined by side chicks.

Athletes and celebrities who lost their wealth because they couldn’t control themselves.

For what? A few minutes of pleasure?

One bad decision can cost you your entire future.

Solution: Think long-term. Don’t let short-term pleasure destroy your lifetime success.

BOTTOM LINE: DISCIPLINE OR DESTRUCTION?

Sex isn’t bad—but lack of control will destroy you.

A moment of pleasure can cost you years of regret.

An undisciplined man will always be a slave to his desires.

If you can’t control your lust, someone else will control you through it.

The greatest men in history were masters of their discipline—not slaves to their desires.

So choose wisely:

Will you be strong enough to build your future?

Or will you waste it all for a few minutes of pleasure?

The choice is yours.

Happy sallah to all Muslim friends

CSR: GOV ENO APPLAUDS AMITEC OVER 10 WATER PROJECTS IN ORUK ANAM, 50,000 EXERCISE BOOKS

…calls on other contractors, companies to emulate same

Akwa Ibom State Governor, Pastor Umo Eno has commended Amitec Construction and Development limited for initiating a corporate Social responsibility project mainly targeted at rural development, youth empowerment and educational advancement.

The Governor made the commendations on Saturday, while inaugurating the 23km Ikot Ekaide- Ikot Okoro- Ikot Ibritam road handled by the construction giants.

“Let me thank the MD of Amitec for taking the lead in sponsoring 5 Trainees to the Dakkada skills acquisition center and donating 10 water projects to communities in Oruk Anam as well as 50,000 copies of branded exercise books to the ministry of education.

“Earlier today, I was at DASAC for the convocation of pioneer Trainees of that institution where I called on contractors to support by sponsoring trainees for the next batch. I am very happy that our brother in Amitec has taken the lead.

“This of the kind of thing we want to see. So, I am calling on other contractors to also sponsor students to the skills training institute. When they finish, you give them starter-packs to start up something on their own” Gov Eno Stressed.

He however, directed the commissioner for education to ensure that 25,000 copies of those exercise books are distributed to schools in Oruk Anam while the other 25,000 can be shared to other schools across the state.

Speaking on the road project, Pastor Eno who was also full of praises to Amitec for quality delivery, expressed satisfaction that a project inherited from his predecessor at 50 percent has been completed. He promised to complete all other economically- viable inherited projects across the state while directing that solar street lights be fixed on the whole stretch of the 23km road.

Speaking earlier, the Managing Director of Amitec, Chief Aiman Saimua who was grateful to Governor Eno for his developmental strides and passion for rural development, said the company’s donation was simply to complement the Government’s visible effort in making life better for the citizens. His speech reads in parts:

“I feel honoured to have been chosen to handle this transformative project which represents a testimony that government in Akwa Ibom State is a continuum.

“The entire stretch of this road traverses 15 villages, out of which 10 of those villages belong to the 12.5km that was handled by Amitec.

“Therefore, to complement the developmental strides of the state government, we will donate 10 water projects for the 10 villages within our section, donate 50,000 copies of branded exercise books to the education ministry and also sponsor initially, 5 persons to DASAC.

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All my new year resolutions I no follow anyone omo... Nigeria

*There are 3 most important thing anyone can become on earth.*

1. A good mother
2. A patient teacher
3. A true leader

Of all the 3, being a *good mother* is the toughest yet the greatest because every teacher and leader was raised by a mother.

A mother is a receiver of seeds.
A home builder.
A helper.
A support system
And most of all, a nurturer.

I feel it is insulting to ask a mother what is she bringing to the table.

It takes mental, physical and extraordinary strength to be a Nurturer.

Money cannot replace it!

When the father is absent in a home, it affects the way the child sees the world but when a child grows up without a mother and someone playing a motherly role, it affects the way a nation is built because every causing mayhem or making impact came from a home.

Being a mother is a journey rather than a destination.

You may feel you have a bad mother...no mother is bad, they are only displaying bad qualities. Be patient with her while loving her regardless of how she treats you.

And for the priceless contributions mothers make, we honour and celebrate you all.

HAPPY MOTHERING Sunday AT ALL MOTHERS AND POTENTIAL MOTHERS.

OIL THEFT: NSCDC COMMANDANT GENERAL SPECIAL INTELLIGENCE SQUAD IMPOUNDS LONG CONTAINER TRUCK WITH 70,000 STOLEN PETROLEUM PRODUCTS STORED INSIDE INBUILT STORAGE TANK IN PORTHARCOURT.

Acting on the Commandant General's marching order to forestall incidents of pipeline Vandalism, Crude oil theft and illegal dealings in petroleum products in the Niger Delta;

The Commandant General's Special Intelligence Squad (CG'S SIS) in a swift response to an Intelligence tip-off has impounded a long Caravan Truck with an in-built tank fully loaded with stolen crude oil.

The truck was sighted while on transit around Eleme flyover in Elelewon, Port Harcourt and was impounded by the CG'S SIS.

In a brief interview with the CG'S SIS Boss; Commandant AS Dandaura hinted that his men were swiftly deployed to the crime scene and upon arrival they impounded a red head navy blue colour container truck with Registration number AGL574XY which was fully loaded with siphoned stolen crude illegally drawn from vandalised well-heads and destroyed installed pipelines.

Commandant Dandaura relayed that the conveyers of the Truck took to their heels as the operatives approached the scene of the crime.

He noted that the exhibits are already confiscated as investigative process have been launched to track down the syndicate who perpetrated such a heinous act of economic sabotage.

"For the records, the exhibits recovered at the point of arrest are: A red head and navy blue colour container with 10 tyres (Reg.no AGL564-XL), an estimated content of about 70,000 litres of stolen crude.

"Hence at expiration of a thorough investigation, the NSCDC would file for forfeiture of the mode of conveyance and the contents at the court of competent jurisdiction thereafter, the proceeds would be remitted to the proceeds of crime account (POCA)".

The CG'S SIS Commander further expressed the commitment of the Squad to keep waging relentless war against oil thieves and their sponsors as he affirmed that suspects arrested would be brought to book after diligent investigation.

SIGNED:
CSC AFOLABI BABAWALE Anipr,
NATIONAL PUBLIC RELATIONS OFFICER
NSCDC NATIONAL HEADQUARTERS ABUJA.

Happy celebration to all the Muslim

When we were still kids, anytime our mom buys milk and Milo, we will just be jubilating and before you know it the milk will finish.

We were always using two tins of milk against one tin of Milo, there's hardly anything we will eat then as kids that we will not add milk, Even the tasting while making the tea will finished the milk.

So during one holiday like that, I decided to visit my aunty, let me go and eat all the good good things in the city, as I reach with my dad that very day, everything was okay, my aunty served us better soup and Garri. Very early the next day my dad left without my notice.

I didn't even know when day break sef, until my aunt woke me up for breakfast, I was very happy inside me, chai this is the type of life I have always dreamt of, sleep wake up and eat, no stress at all. I got to the dining table and saw the shock of my life, one spoon of milk inside mug with Lipton not even Milo, with two slices of bread.

Tears full my eyes, this is the kind of food they used to give to prisoners now, God who sent me, is this the reason this woman woke me up from my sleep?. Me that used to drink tea with who sent you cup. I now used style to asked after my Dad and was told he has gone, ha I'm finished, bread and tea that we used to use as appetizer, hmmmn I just drank the thing with hope of eating that kind of soup I ate in the night.

People of God, it was 12 o'clock no show, 1 o'clock no show, 2 o'clock no show, till around 3 o'clock before this woman come give us food, Garri wey I dey finished 2cups only me, na him 4 people eat. I felt sick immediately. I can endure everything but definitely not hunger.

This woman get mind go buy me medicine to drink, did I tell her I need drugs, madam I need food, abi them they take drugs on empty stomach ni? To call the long story short, holiday I plan on staying for one month ended in two days.

I can't come and k!// myself by myself.

#childhood