Is not easy to be a man

Mazikeen Fallen Angel

Light shines on the stream where the girls in the village usually comes to fetch water and also do some washing.
Girl 1: did you hear what happened
Girl 2: what happened gest me
Girl 1: there's this rumors going on in the village ooo
Girl 2: what rumor
Girl 1: Ada don'tl me your not in this village ooo
Ada: see me ooo, Sarah if you want to tell me then go ahead na why biting about the bush
Sarah: okey ooo, have you heard about something that landed in the sea in the next village years ago. And since then no body has heard anything about it.
Ada: wonders shall never end oooo, the last time you said it was in a far away village now is the next village abeg which one should I believe now.
Sarah : am just keeping you updated based on how am hearing it ooo because me now am scared
Ada: hmmmm is ok miss imformate
Sarah : see who is coming ( she turns back)
Ada: who na ..... Okey abeg let's be going I believe you are done washing na, ( the girl walked towards them)
Sarah : abeg oooo don't touch me oooo with that devil's face of yours before you give me bad luck this morning
Ada : Sarah no na, don't call her that na ...
Sarah : hold it there I will address her any how I want
Girl 3: Sarah what have I done to you that you will not allow me to have peace in this village. Right Dr when we were kids or are my the one that created myself like this
Ada: Bellema is okay na, sorry don't mind her okay ( she gets closer to console her) you supposed to have known Sarah by now.( Sarah drags her as they both left the scene with their water and clothes)
Bellema : what have I done in this life ( she looks up to the sky) God why did you created me this way, there's no difference between me and a monkey ( one part of her face were covered with back hair and also a part of her body too, the other side was dark in complexion)
Woman 1: Bellema what are you still doing here this village is no longer safe oooo
Bellema: mama Ada good Morning , but how do you mean.
Woman 1: don't tell me you have forgotten so soon about what landed in the river of Amanni years back
Bellema: I had it ma , but I don't believe in that
Woman 1: better do oooo, you now alone here so do fast an leave my daughter.
Bellema: ok ma bye bye ( the woman carried her farm tools and leaves the scene. Bellema strated singing while washing her clothes as tears drops down her chick . After washing and was ready to leave she heard someone singing that same song , she looks around but couldn't see anyone. She joined the singing and left the scene, the moment she left Mazikeen lifted her face out of the water and smiled.

Una no go believe say nothing dey my account ,
A whole leader of tomorrow

It does not matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop.

Always grateful to God Almighty

The teenage years! A time of growth, exploration, and, yes, challenges. As a parent, you play a significant role in shaping your teenager's life. Here are some valuable parenting tips for teens:

Communication
1. *Listen actively*: Pay attention to what your teen says, and show that you're engaged in the conversation.
2. *Validate their feelings*: Acknowledge and respect your teen's emotions, even if you don't agree with their perspective.
3. *Use "I" statements*: Instead of accusing your teen, express your concerns using "I" statements.

Setting Boundaries
1. *Establish clear rules*: Set clear expectations and consequences while explaining the reasoning behind the rules.
2. *Be consistent*: Consistently enforce the rules to avoid confusion and mixed signals.
3. *Offer choices*: Provide choices within reason, allowing your teen to feel more in control.

Encouraging Independence
1. *Gradual freedom*: Gradually give your teen more independence as they demonstrate responsibility.
2. *Encourage decision-making*: Support your teen in making decisions, even if it means making mistakes.
3. *Respect their autonomy*: Respect your teen's growing autonomy while still providing guidance.

Emotional Support
1. *Be approachable*: Create a safe and non-judgmental space for your teen to open up.
2. *Show physical affection*: Physical touch, like hugs, can help your teen feel loved and supported.
3. *Celebrate successes*: Acknowledge and celebrate your teen's achievements, no matter how small.

Managing Conflict
1. *Stay calm*: Regulate your emotions to avoid escalating conflicts.
2. *Avoid criticism*: Focus on the issue, not your teen's character.
3. *Seek common ground*: Work together to find a mutually acceptable solution.

Final Tips
1. *Stay involved*: Show interest in your teen's life, even if they seem to push you away.
2. *Be patient*: Parenting a teenager can be challenging; practice patience and understanding.
3. *Take care of yourself*: Don't forget to prioritize your own physical, emotional, and mental well-being.

Remember, parenting a teenager is a journey, and it's okay to make mistakes. By following these tips, you can build a stronger, more supportive relationship with your teen. See you next time.Bye olayemicares
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Today was hectic

Good evening everyone. Hope we are good today

Mazikeen Fallen Angel

Light shines on the stream where the girls in the village usually comes to fetch water and also do some washing.
Girl 1: did you hear what happened
Girl 2: what happened gest me
Girl 1: there's this rumors going on in the village ooo
Girl 2: what rumor
Girl 1: Ada don'tl me your not in this village ooo
Ada: see me ooo, Sarah if you want to tell me then go ahead na why biting about the bush
Sarah: okey ooo, have you heard about something that landed in the sea in the next village years ago. And since then no body has heard anything about it.
Ada: wonders shall never end oooo, the last time you said it was in a far away village now is the next village abeg which one should I believe now.
Sarah : am just keeping you updated based on how am hearing it ooo because me now am scared
Ada: hmmmm is ok miss imformate
Sarah : see who is coming ( she turns back)
Ada: who na ..... Okey abeg let's be going I believe you are done washing na, ( the girl walked towards them)
Sarah : abeg oooo don't touch me oooo with that devil's face of yours before you give me bad luck this morning
Ada : Sarah no na, don't call her that na ...
Sarah : hold it there I will address her any how I want
Girl 3: Sarah what have I done to you that you will not allow me to have peace in this village. Right Dr when we were kids or are my the one that created myself like this
Ada: Bellema is okay na, sorry don't mind her okay ( she gets closer to console her) you supposed to have known Sarah by now.( Sarah drags her as they both left the scene with their water and clothes)
Bellema : what have I done in this life ( she looks up to the sky) God why did you created me this way, there's no difference between me and a monkey ( one part of her face were covered with back hair and also a part of her body too, the other side was dark in complexion)
Woman 1: Bellema what are you still doing here this village is no longer safe oooo
Bellema: mama Ada good Morning , but how do you mean.
Woman 1: don't tell me you have forgotten so soon about what landed in the river of Amanni years back
Bellema: I had it ma , but I don't believe in that
Woman 1: better do oooo, you now alone here so do fast an leave my daughter.
Bellema: ok ma bye bye ( the woman carried her farm tools and leaves the scene. Bellema strated singing while washing her clothes as tears drops down her chick . After washing and was ready to leave she heard someone singing that same song , she looks around but couldn't see anyone. She joined the singing and left the scene, the moment she left Mazikeen lifted her face out of the water and smiled

Life is nothing without God make him your first priority in life in order to succeed