Try to follow the principle "time will tell"

Don’t panic, don’t try to immediately get to the bottom of the truth, don’t make hasty conclusions. If something doesn't go according to plan, put it aside and wait to see how it turns out. Give yourself time, and then everything will fall into place, the truth will be revealed, and any puzzle will come together. You will draw conclusions later.

Don't stop believing in what you want

Fate sometimes arranges too many checks on the truth of people’s desires, but it is important to know: every day when your faith warms your heart and does not disappear, the dream becomes closer and closer to realization.

Don't let others devalue you

Your work, your achievements, and you as a person. Get rid of such people ruthlessly. Uproot and throw out of your inner circle of friends. And never return to them again. Such people cultivate complexes in you that do not allow you to be a happy and self-sufficient person

Learn to create yourself

Develop, invest in yourself, sparing no effort. Do whatever you want. The main thing is never stand still. Your happiness will be absolute and uncompromising when it depends on you and your inner peace.

Forget everything bad

One of the most useful life skills is the ability to quickly forget everything bad: don’t dwell on troubles, don’t live with grievances, don’t revel in irritation, don’t harbor a grudge. You shouldn’t drag all sorts of rubbish into your soul.

Don't blame yourself for not doing anything right now.

This is called rest, respite. Be yourself. Rest, live through your emotions: if you want to be sad, be sad; if you want to be happy, be happy; if you want to cry, cry. You definitely need to live through your emotions in order to move on

There's only one way to reach your goal

And this method is a strong desire.
If you can't achieve something or someone, it means you don't really want it. Perhaps it's just not your thing. Think about it.