In the remaining days of this year. Weeping, sorrow and calamity shall not be our portion🤲🏾

Psychology says:

— if a person laughs too much, even at stupid things, they are lonely deep inside.
— if a person sleeps a lot, they are sad.
— if a person speaks less, but speaks fast, he keeps secrets.
— if someone can't cry, they are weak.
— if someone eats in an abnormal manner, they are tense.
— if someone cries on little things, they are innocent and soft-hearted.
— if someone becomes angry over silly or petty things, it means they need love...

Try to understand people more.

Train your concentration

I say no matter how hard you try, it won't be successful unless you can concentrate on it properly!

Solve your problems quickly and easily by turning your attention away from other things, and the following method will help you:

Take an ordinary watch and watch the second hand move for 5 minutes.
Think ONLY about that hand and nothing else. If you get distracted, start over.

Developing this quality will begin to pay off very quickly - you'll stop making mistakes and waste less time solving problems

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How to let the past go

Avoid imposing standards on yourself. It's a trap!

There is such a thing as a "standard of expectations". Most people absolutely know that any typical situation is bound to have its default course. And, thus, most traumas and hurts from the past are unfulfilled expectations.

For example, a woman gets married simply because she expects her husband to support her, while her husband earns pennies and doesn't bother to earn more, the woman gets divorced and is angry at the world, thinking that all men are mean and lazy.

The divorce happened years ago, and if it were not for her perpetually angry and depressed state of mind, the young energetic woman would have simply found another man from among those "reined in" to earn, and she doesn't consider it a feat. Yet, all of her energy is spent regretting the past and the "best years of her life" gone irrevocably.

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⚡️Where Is the Best Place to Start A Business?

The most obvious answer to this question is where there are plenty of customers. But one must also take into account the specifics of the area or region where prospective customers are located. For example, if you’re planning on setting up a business in a part of the world that you’re only partly familiar with (perhaps because you fell in love with it while on vacation), do plenty of homework first.

According to the World Bank’s International Finance Corporation (IFC), entrepreneurs planning on starting a business in a foreign country or unfamiliar area should first ensure that the following situations exist:

. There should be a low number of rules, regulations, paperwork, and licenses so the business and its activities can be made legitimate in a timely manner.
. The business owner should be able to hire and fire employees with relative ease.
. The business owner should have the capacity to draw up and enforce a legal contract.
. The business owner should be able to obtain credit or borrow money.
. A low number of steps and procedures should exist so that the business can either be closed down - or bankruptcy can be declared - with relative ease.

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#for new business owners

Here are Some Cold Hard Truths about Life You Must Know.

1. You May Be Better Without Some People. People come and go. As you grow older, your priorities and characters will change. Accept that growing means you will have to leave a lot of things behind, no matter how hard and painful.

2. You Don’t Have to Accept Yourself for Who You Are. You can work on yourself to change your bad qualities, improve yourself and grow into a better person.

3. No One Will Care for You Better Than You Will. We are all born into this world to find our purpose and fulfil our own aspirations. Everyone is too busy looking out for themselves and don’t have the time to care about you.

4. Sometimes, Bad Things Happen to Good People. You cannot control everything that happens in your life. What you can do, however, is use every experience as instrument of learning and transformation towards living your destiny rather than playing victim to them.

5. Nothing is Permanent in this World. Spend more quality time with your parents. Don’t waste your chance to ask for their advice while they’re still here with you. We can never tell how much time we have here in this world.

6. One day your parents will die, and you will remember them while looking at others’ parents and you will remember your past memory. And when you are in trouble, you will also remember them.

7. After some years you will not be able to do any work.

8. You cannot make everyone happy. There are many people who will never like you, and sometimes the reasons will be a mystery to you.

9. Ultimately you are all you have. People come and go; you really are not as important to other people as you would like to be.

10. People will always judge you for your personal choices.

11. Marriage can be a bitter, lonely and loveless experience. Many times, your partner may ignore your feelings and never apologize for it.

12. Although you have talent and ambition, sometimes you will not succeed in some aspects in which you would like to be successful.

13. Sometimes excessive worry is unavoidable, but they often prevent you from achieving success.

14. There are people who will only like you if you agree on their views on politics, religion or morals.

15. Fear is the most devastating emotion.

16. You may never be able to fulfil all your love and sex fantasies. Sometimes marriage can be a cruel trap.

17. Do not believe everything you see or read. Dare to think for yourself, challenge your comfort zone and create your own opinions.

18. Even if you love someone, it doesn't mean that person loves you.

19. Life is painful. You may have a lot to give, but sometimes no one is willing to receive.

10 𝗪𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗕𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝗠𝗮𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗲𝗱

1. 𝗦𝗘𝗧 𝗬𝗢𝗨𝗥 𝗚𝗢𝗔𝗟𝗦, 𝗕𝗨𝗧 𝗗𝗢𝗡’𝗧 𝗕𝗘 𝗣𝗥𝗘𝗦𝗦𝗨𝗥𝗘𝗗

Rather than spending time on things that don’t make you grow, know yourself and what you want to become. Invest your energy on working to reach your goals but don’t feel pressured and allow yourself to experience failures.

2. 𝗟𝗘𝗔𝗥𝗡 𝗦𝗘𝗟𝗙-𝗥𝗘𝗟𝗜𝗔𝗡𝗖𝗘

Growing up, you may have been dependent on your parents, siblings, friends, and other people around you, and they might undeniably made your life easier. But in reality, not everyone can be there for someone forever. Each of us deals with our own battles, and you have to learn how to overcome them alone. It will make you stronger and more prepared to a much difficult trail.

3. 𝗟𝗘𝗔𝗥𝗡 𝗦𝗘𝗟𝗙-𝗖𝗢𝗡𝗧𝗥𝗢𝗟

Learn to control your emotions, actions, and temper. Learn to reflect, evaluate, and analyze the ends before it begins. Never let your emotions overpower your intelligence.

4. 𝗗𝗘𝗩𝗘𝗟𝗢𝗣 𝗔𝗖𝗖𝗘𝗣𝗧𝗔𝗡𝗖𝗘

Understand that you can never control everything. When you face a loved one’s death, rejection, failure, heartbreak, etc., learn to quickly move forward, and the first step to that is acceptance.

5. 𝗕𝗘 𝗖𝗢𝗡𝗧𝗘𝗡𝗧𝗘𝗗, 𝗥𝗘𝗙𝗥𝗔𝗜𝗡 𝗙𝗥𝗢𝗠 𝗖𝗢𝗠𝗣𝗟𝗔𝗜𝗡𝗜𝗡𝗚

The most common reason for unhappiness is not learning to be contented. Count what you have and work for what you don’t have; complaining won’t make a thing.

6. 𝗤𝗨𝗜𝗧 𝗕𝗘𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗘𝗡𝗩𝗜𝗢𝗨𝗦

Find joy in other people’s success while working on yours. Other people's success will never threaten yours. Other people's blessings will never take away yours.

7. 𝗔𝗩𝗢𝗜𝗗 𝗡𝗘𝗚𝗔𝗧𝗜𝗩𝗘𝗦

Surround yourself with positive people. Condition your mind with positive thoughts. Engage yourself in a positive environment, and eliminate anything that doesn't contribute a positive effect.

8. 𝗕𝗨𝗜𝗟𝗗 𝗦𝗘𝗟𝗙-𝗖𝗢𝗡𝗙𝗜𝗗𝗘𝗡𝗖𝗘

Accept and love yourself; it is the first step to build confidence. Go out of your comfort zone. You will never know where your confidence will take you.

9. 𝗕𝗘 𝗢𝗣𝗘𝗡-𝗠𝗜𝗡𝗗𝗘𝗗

Accept constructive criticisms as they will help you grow. Be open to suggestions, opinions, and changes. An open-minded person accepts his mistakes, makes improvements, and therefore is more likely to achieve success.

10. 𝗕𝗘 𝗞𝗜𝗡𝗗

The world might be cruel but when you start sharing kindness, sooner it will become a better place to live. Be kind to yourself and to everyone

°•Life full off problem but problem is not Permanent°
                           
        °Midnight Thoughts•